My girlfriend hates that fact that I masturb@te??
Question: I'm 29 and I've been with my girlfriend for a couple of years. We have a good sex life, but she doesn't have as high a sex drive as me. We usually have sex 4 or 5 times a week, but I'd do it at least once a day if I could. Anyway, I masturb@te regularly, but my girlfriend walked in on me doing it yesterday and went crazy. How can I explain to her that all guys still do it? Or is it not normal that I need to masturb@te as much?
Answers: It is normal. She probably feels like you're replacing her, or that it's kinky,etc.
The next time you're in the mood try to make her be in the mood. I know that sometimes I claim to not be in the mood, but after some persuasion I can heartily change my mind.
Girls don't get turned on by sight, but by touch. The next tiem you want some, go after her, but be romantic and tender too. Tell her how beautiful you think she is, and how much you long for her. Kiss her neck, and eyes, and smooth her hair. Compliment her like hell, and be as sugary as possible.
Make her realize, that you wouldn't have to masturbate if she were more open to sex.
Also, encourage her to take a multivitamin with you. Alot of women don't have enough zinc -- so they have hard time getting wet.
They don't have enough niacin, either, so they don't feel good.
Get her to take evening primrose oil for her hair , and flax seed oil to help prevent cholesterol issues for both of you (buy smart balance too, so that this sounds more plausible). Once she starts taking those magical four (zinc, niacin, evening primrose oil, and flax seed oil) she'll have a hard time keeping her hands off of you.
Don't complain! I get it once a week and could not survive without the old knuckle-shuffle.
Just say it like you did above - you have a high sex drive. And tell her that you don't want to be over-demanding to her. She will come round.
Or (even better) ask her do do it for you! THere you go, problem solved.
Just tell her in a simple way that she is perfect in bed but you need to masturbate. Do not offend her by telling her that she is not good in bed or something like that,just try to explain her that it is normal and you need to do it.
MAYBE SHE WANTED TO HELP
show her this answer: All guys do it whenever they can, I've jacked it twice while writing this answer
She may feel she is not pleasing you enough. And you have to masturbate to get forfilled. Just sit her down and kindly and sweetly explain to her. That is she great in bed and you enjoy sex with her but you just masturbate when she is unavailable. If you start taking away sex from her to masturbate than there is a problem. otherwise it is perfectly normal.
at least your not out with another woman. tell her,men are different.
not all the guys are doing it.
Stop being a perv.
Geez your 29. And past your peak age for these things
so just settle down dude.
If you can't chill you probally do need to see the doctor. For your healths sake.
just tell her its better you do it than u going to someone else to get it done, eh?
and tell her u ONLY think of her when u do it...or did she catch u with a picture of Jessica Alba in your other hand?
but i see where she is coming from, its the way women are, its natural for them to get pissed at anything sexual that u do to yourself or with someone other than her, even if she is otherwise not providing the service. just nature i guess...i get pissed @ my man when he looks at Victoria's Secret catalogs WITH me to see what i should get, mind you its my idea to look together in the 1st place...if thats not crazy i dont know what is...
Get her to join you. I go down on my man all the time & I love it! I would go down on him everyday if he let me.
Don't discuss it with her. And be more discrete the next time. The masturbation is on your body and is none of her business. Woman are quick to speak of their body rights of reproduction and abortion. I think a man should have a similar right to bang his own hand pal if he needs to.
Answers: It is normal. She probably feels like you're replacing her, or that it's kinky,etc.
The next time you're in the mood try to make her be in the mood. I know that sometimes I claim to not be in the mood, but after some persuasion I can heartily change my mind.
Girls don't get turned on by sight, but by touch. The next tiem you want some, go after her, but be romantic and tender too. Tell her how beautiful you think she is, and how much you long for her. Kiss her neck, and eyes, and smooth her hair. Compliment her like hell, and be as sugary as possible.
Make her realize, that you wouldn't have to masturbate if she were more open to sex.
Also, encourage her to take a multivitamin with you. Alot of women don't have enough zinc -- so they have hard time getting wet.
They don't have enough niacin, either, so they don't feel good.
Get her to take evening primrose oil for her hair , and flax seed oil to help prevent cholesterol issues for both of you (buy smart balance too, so that this sounds more plausible). Once she starts taking those magical four (zinc, niacin, evening primrose oil, and flax seed oil) she'll have a hard time keeping her hands off of you.
Don't complain! I get it once a week and could not survive without the old knuckle-shuffle.
Just say it like you did above - you have a high sex drive. And tell her that you don't want to be over-demanding to her. She will come round.
Or (even better) ask her do do it for you! THere you go, problem solved.
Just tell her in a simple way that she is perfect in bed but you need to masturbate. Do not offend her by telling her that she is not good in bed or something like that,just try to explain her that it is normal and you need to do it.
MAYBE SHE WANTED TO HELP
show her this answer: All guys do it whenever they can, I've jacked it twice while writing this answer
She may feel she is not pleasing you enough. And you have to masturbate to get forfilled. Just sit her down and kindly and sweetly explain to her. That is she great in bed and you enjoy sex with her but you just masturbate when she is unavailable. If you start taking away sex from her to masturbate than there is a problem. otherwise it is perfectly normal.
at least your not out with another woman. tell her,men are different.
not all the guys are doing it.
Stop being a perv.
Geez your 29. And past your peak age for these things
so just settle down dude.
If you can't chill you probally do need to see the doctor. For your healths sake.
just tell her its better you do it than u going to someone else to get it done, eh?
and tell her u ONLY think of her when u do it...or did she catch u with a picture of Jessica Alba in your other hand?
but i see where she is coming from, its the way women are, its natural for them to get pissed at anything sexual that u do to yourself or with someone other than her, even if she is otherwise not providing the service. just nature i guess...i get pissed @ my man when he looks at Victoria's Secret catalogs WITH me to see what i should get, mind you its my idea to look together in the 1st place...if thats not crazy i dont know what is...
Get her to join you. I go down on my man all the time & I love it! I would go down on him everyday if he let me.
Don't discuss it with her. And be more discrete the next time. The masturbation is on your body and is none of her business. Woman are quick to speak of their body rights of reproduction and abortion. I think a man should have a similar right to bang his own hand pal if he needs to.
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