How do you go about......??
Question: ok. Well, Im dont know how explain this. Ive gone from hating my life, to being satisfied, or at least ok, and thankful for my life! But all if a sudden, Im back to sqaure one. How do i just accept the things I cant change. Accept me. And how my life is!! I just want to be happy with what God gave me. And to make the best of my life. But sometimes I just feel like Im never gonna find a way to be happy!! What do I do!? Help!!!!!!
Answers: God, grant me the Serenity
To accept the things I cannot change...
Courage to change the things I can,
And Wisdom to know the difference.
Living one day at a time,
Enjoying one moment at a time,
Accepting hardship as the pathway to peace.
Taking, as He did, this sinful world as it is,
Not as I would have it.
Trusting that He will make all things right
if I surrender to His will.
That I may be reasonably happy in this life,
And supremely happy with Him forever in the next.
Amen.
Attributed to Reinhold Neibuhr
My suggestion is to talk to God about it or maybe a psychiatrics can help.
You need to learn to accept that sometimes there are days when you are down. Of course if you find this is a problem that happens more often than not then you probably need some professional help.
just remember that there are always other people in a much worse state than yourself and feel good about it.
Well, I think you have to identify what it is that is making you hate life again and deal with it, work through it. Maybe there's something you need to forgive of yourself?
Go to church. Listen to the sermon and I guarantee you'll be shown (at least) one thing to be thankful for, and one thing you need to change to be more obedient to God. Being surrounded by the Spirit will restore your peace.
And eat a balanced diet and get plenty of rest.
i have had the same problem, i don't think you can truly be happy with yourself until you believe that you can. if you think that you will never be happy with yourself then you wont but be positive. try quotes on your mirror in the bathroom and say them to yourself every morning. ex. i am beautiful. I'm worth it. i can be something I'm proud of. just try it if it doesn't work just remember your no better that what people think of you. so if people can look at you and tell your not happy they wont be happy with you. so give out a positive perspective. hope it works!!!
you know? feel the same way, like you are in a train station and have a ticket for a train but you don't want to use it because you are waiting for another train... you know what I mean??? If you want to talk... =)
All you have to do is KNOW that your are the bomb and things never ever stay the same. Did I say Ever. I meant ever the same. Just KNOW you can do it. Cause you can. You are the one who can change things for yourself. Like being open minded. It really helps. Just saying that, that will help you to KNOW that things will NEVER EVER stay the same.
You will succeed so dont give up now.
What aspects of your life are you unhappy with? and is there some way you can change these things? or are you stuck with them the way they are?
It sounds like you may have problems accepting and liking yourself. Are you having low self esteem issues?
Maybe you can find those talents that you have inside of you, and use them, and express yourself and once you see that side of you, you can appreciate more what you can do.
Make yourself useful in whatever pleases you. You can touch people in many different ways - and that will help to make you feel better about you and you will like yourself more when you make a difference to others.
Consider how unfortunate some people are - they may never have the advantages that you have. If you have good health, you are attractive, you live in a nice place, you can eat good food - these are all wonderful things - and not everyone on this planet is so fortunate as we.
You are blessed in more ways than you realize.
If you still need help, then maybe you should seek counseling to figure out why you feel the way you do.
God bless and good luck!
well, for one. things cant be that bad. your family has enough money for a computer and an internet connection, so you have food to eat, and a house to live in im guessing
things happen that you cant change.. you have to accept that you are not the only person alive, and that alot of people have it ALOT worse.
so when small things go wrong and seem like the end of the world, its just a minor setback compared to say, having your entire family executed infront of you because they have different religious beliefs than those who kill them.
but, I know how you feel. I have had a very bad experience in my life, that has brought shame and dishonor to my reputation, and to make it worse, i was helpless to change the situation, altough i cant say it was not partially my fault.
anyhow, cheer up. its hard to do. but its all a state of mind. you can always laugh things off, and do what makes you feel good.
Hey Scary and Dangerous (Nice u like Grey's too), sometimes in life things go well for us and sometimes not so well. I certainly try to look to the good things and keep those in focus. It helps keep the bad things away.
There's a lot of bad enough things in our lives and bad that people want to do to us daily that we shouldn't be doing it to ourselves too.
You will be happy - whatever you are looking for will happen - don't rush it.
Yep, life is miserable and sucky...but, if you set your mind to accomplish a task every day, you will feel better. Start out small, then something a little bigger, then string a series of them together (baby, steps) towards a really big goal. You can't get from A to D without going through B and C. After a while, you'll look around and life will be grand! Just tackle one problem a day. That's 365 positive impacts on your life in one year!
Read the serenity prayer. God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change Courage to change the things I can and wisdom to know the difference. In life sometimes you can't change things and the things that you can change have wisdom and courage to do so. Hang in there. You gotta make yourself get out and do things that use to make you happy again. Call up a good friend and talk about he good thing things in life. Look at what God has given you. Beautiful days birds chirping at night all the different sounds.just listen with your heart. Write a list of things that make you happy and a list of things that make you down.Then use them. Hope this helps.
well , i advise that you pray to GOD to take that feeling away. no one should feel that they have no purpose with their life.everyone is special with something,it could be cooking, cleaning, dancing,etc and you should feel good about your special thing. second, you should try to get help if you still feel bad you should talk to a specialist of the human mind ,then hopefully they can help you . third and finally you should tell someone about how you feel and use all your thoughts or you could write it down on paper so you could get your thoughts out of your head.
well... i.. guess we are two of a kind with a million cousins who share this same feeling ... the problem is you feel this when you are too mush isolated from others if not in the physical world, find ways to be in touch with some one whose presence will make you feel less lonely
u r right in my prayers dear
i say u have to make a goal in your life. like to become a doctor. so go to college, then be intern, then start working, then be the best doctor ever and etc. in that case your life will have perpose. u have this unhappy feeling because u re not going in any direction. u re stuck. u have no perpose. all those solutions some people proposed to u are just temporary. u need aim in life. so try to figure out what is it u want from life and then go get it. good luck
Answers: God, grant me the Serenity
To accept the things I cannot change...
Courage to change the things I can,
And Wisdom to know the difference.
Living one day at a time,
Enjoying one moment at a time,
Accepting hardship as the pathway to peace.
Taking, as He did, this sinful world as it is,
Not as I would have it.
Trusting that He will make all things right
if I surrender to His will.
That I may be reasonably happy in this life,
And supremely happy with Him forever in the next.
Amen.
Attributed to Reinhold Neibuhr
My suggestion is to talk to God about it or maybe a psychiatrics can help.
You need to learn to accept that sometimes there are days when you are down. Of course if you find this is a problem that happens more often than not then you probably need some professional help.
just remember that there are always other people in a much worse state than yourself and feel good about it.
Well, I think you have to identify what it is that is making you hate life again and deal with it, work through it. Maybe there's something you need to forgive of yourself?
Go to church. Listen to the sermon and I guarantee you'll be shown (at least) one thing to be thankful for, and one thing you need to change to be more obedient to God. Being surrounded by the Spirit will restore your peace.
And eat a balanced diet and get plenty of rest.
i have had the same problem, i don't think you can truly be happy with yourself until you believe that you can. if you think that you will never be happy with yourself then you wont but be positive. try quotes on your mirror in the bathroom and say them to yourself every morning. ex. i am beautiful. I'm worth it. i can be something I'm proud of. just try it if it doesn't work just remember your no better that what people think of you. so if people can look at you and tell your not happy they wont be happy with you. so give out a positive perspective. hope it works!!!
you know? feel the same way, like you are in a train station and have a ticket for a train but you don't want to use it because you are waiting for another train... you know what I mean??? If you want to talk... =)
All you have to do is KNOW that your are the bomb and things never ever stay the same. Did I say Ever. I meant ever the same. Just KNOW you can do it. Cause you can. You are the one who can change things for yourself. Like being open minded. It really helps. Just saying that, that will help you to KNOW that things will NEVER EVER stay the same.
You will succeed so dont give up now.
What aspects of your life are you unhappy with? and is there some way you can change these things? or are you stuck with them the way they are?
It sounds like you may have problems accepting and liking yourself. Are you having low self esteem issues?
Maybe you can find those talents that you have inside of you, and use them, and express yourself and once you see that side of you, you can appreciate more what you can do.
Make yourself useful in whatever pleases you. You can touch people in many different ways - and that will help to make you feel better about you and you will like yourself more when you make a difference to others.
Consider how unfortunate some people are - they may never have the advantages that you have. If you have good health, you are attractive, you live in a nice place, you can eat good food - these are all wonderful things - and not everyone on this planet is so fortunate as we.
You are blessed in more ways than you realize.
If you still need help, then maybe you should seek counseling to figure out why you feel the way you do.
God bless and good luck!
well, for one. things cant be that bad. your family has enough money for a computer and an internet connection, so you have food to eat, and a house to live in im guessing
things happen that you cant change.. you have to accept that you are not the only person alive, and that alot of people have it ALOT worse.
so when small things go wrong and seem like the end of the world, its just a minor setback compared to say, having your entire family executed infront of you because they have different religious beliefs than those who kill them.
but, I know how you feel. I have had a very bad experience in my life, that has brought shame and dishonor to my reputation, and to make it worse, i was helpless to change the situation, altough i cant say it was not partially my fault.
anyhow, cheer up. its hard to do. but its all a state of mind. you can always laugh things off, and do what makes you feel good.
Hey Scary and Dangerous (Nice u like Grey's too), sometimes in life things go well for us and sometimes not so well. I certainly try to look to the good things and keep those in focus. It helps keep the bad things away.
There's a lot of bad enough things in our lives and bad that people want to do to us daily that we shouldn't be doing it to ourselves too.
You will be happy - whatever you are looking for will happen - don't rush it.
Yep, life is miserable and sucky...but, if you set your mind to accomplish a task every day, you will feel better. Start out small, then something a little bigger, then string a series of them together (baby, steps) towards a really big goal. You can't get from A to D without going through B and C. After a while, you'll look around and life will be grand! Just tackle one problem a day. That's 365 positive impacts on your life in one year!
Read the serenity prayer. God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change Courage to change the things I can and wisdom to know the difference. In life sometimes you can't change things and the things that you can change have wisdom and courage to do so. Hang in there. You gotta make yourself get out and do things that use to make you happy again. Call up a good friend and talk about he good thing things in life. Look at what God has given you. Beautiful days birds chirping at night all the different sounds.just listen with your heart. Write a list of things that make you happy and a list of things that make you down.Then use them. Hope this helps.
well , i advise that you pray to GOD to take that feeling away. no one should feel that they have no purpose with their life.everyone is special with something,it could be cooking, cleaning, dancing,etc and you should feel good about your special thing. second, you should try to get help if you still feel bad you should talk to a specialist of the human mind ,then hopefully they can help you . third and finally you should tell someone about how you feel and use all your thoughts or you could write it down on paper so you could get your thoughts out of your head.
well... i.. guess we are two of a kind with a million cousins who share this same feeling ... the problem is you feel this when you are too mush isolated from others if not in the physical world, find ways to be in touch with some one whose presence will make you feel less lonely
u r right in my prayers dear
i say u have to make a goal in your life. like to become a doctor. so go to college, then be intern, then start working, then be the best doctor ever and etc. in that case your life will have perpose. u have this unhappy feeling because u re not going in any direction. u re stuck. u have no perpose. all those solutions some people proposed to u are just temporary. u need aim in life. so try to figure out what is it u want from life and then go get it. good luck
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