How do I tell my elderly mother she has Alzheimers? How have you done it??

Question: She doesn't know, and neither does her husband, my father. My brother does, however, and he has been going to support groups for it. I'd just like some opinions and input. Thanks in advance.

Answers: First off let me say I am sorry for your situation. I have worked caring for Alzheimer's patients for years now and know what is ahead for you. As far as telling your mother you should probably tell your father first. That way he can help and support you and your mother through this. Depending on what stage your mother is in she probably already knows to some extent that something is wrong. She probably realizes that she is losing memory and everyday functions. Telling her before her disease progresses anymore is a good idea. The further along the disease the harder it will be for her to understand what is happening. Also just a fact for you... you can only truly diagnose Alzheimers with an Autopsy. Therefore you may want a second opinion on her disease. I am not saying her doctor is wrong but there are other reasons for dementia besides Alzheimer's. Just thought you should know so you can rule out other diseases such as Parkinsons disease if you have not already. Hope this is helpful to you. Good luck!

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My grandmother has it. Telling her was almost impossible. It took a long time, and her doctor was a lot of help. She lives in a nursing home now, happliy. She wasn't married anymore though, which makes your situation much harder. Not only do you have to convince her, you also have to convince your father. I'm sorry you are going through this, but you are not alone. Your mother's acceptance of it will make the difference for you.

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