What can i do??
Question: what can i do to cope with the death of my mom?
Answers: I understand what you must be going thru beacuase I faced the same dilema few years ago. Mother is like a shelter, saving her child from all evils. She cares for you and prays for you.
I suggest you should maintain a contact with her. Not physically or mentally but spritually. Do good for her. If she left a sister behind her, pay respect to her as if she is your mom. Feed the poor and hungry on behalf of your mother and rest assured she'd be very happy to receive these gifts from you.
You will feel comfortable that way and it would be easier to bear the pain.
im very sorry gt a friend to cheer u up or a pet sorry about the death of your mom.
read the new testament.
find someone who you are able to talk to about your feelings--be it a friend, family member, counselor or support group. There are aslo some excellent books about grief that can be helpful.
My sympathies are with you. It must be really horrible dealing with the loss of a parent. The best thing to do is just to remember that she's in a better place. She's not in any pain and she is happy. You are the one who is miserable. You might want to take grief counseling, or just find a good friend to talk it over with. Another thing is, get out of the house and do stuff you really like to do. You might take a trip somewhere you've always wanted to go. Your mom is gone from this world, but she will always be in your heart, and you will have good memories of when she was with you always. I wish you well and I hope this will help. Peace be with you.
I strongly recommend allowing yourself to accept support from family and friends. Talk to them - share what you feel. The most widely accepted concept of the stages of grief that a person goes through are
1. Shock/Denial
2. Anger
3. Bargaining (as in I'd do anything to have them back/making deals with god etc.)
4. Depression
5. Acceptance
If you find yourself really stuck or struggling, I strongly recommend seeing a counselor for grief & loss sessions. This can be very short term. Sometimes it really helps to talk with an objective person and/or a professional who understands more about grieving. If you're a religious person, speak with your minister or priest or rabbi.
I just noticed your screen name. If you're cutting to cope with your feelings, please tell a trusted adult and please seek counseling. There are much better ways. Emotional scars are bad enough - you don't need physical ones.
Hi,
Im so sorry about the death of your mom. :(
But listen, your mom is in a much much better place now.
She's in Heaven surrounded by Love and God's Angels and Warmth.
She's in a place where she will feel no more sadness or hurt or pain.
She's in a place where she will always be cared for, loved and looked after.
She's in a place that is perfect and peaceful and serene.
May Gods light always shine on her
and May His Angels always keep her warm and love her.
May she rest in peace.
Amen/Ameen
Answers: I understand what you must be going thru beacuase I faced the same dilema few years ago. Mother is like a shelter, saving her child from all evils. She cares for you and prays for you.
I suggest you should maintain a contact with her. Not physically or mentally but spritually. Do good for her. If she left a sister behind her, pay respect to her as if she is your mom. Feed the poor and hungry on behalf of your mother and rest assured she'd be very happy to receive these gifts from you.
You will feel comfortable that way and it would be easier to bear the pain.
im very sorry gt a friend to cheer u up or a pet sorry about the death of your mom.
read the new testament.
find someone who you are able to talk to about your feelings--be it a friend, family member, counselor or support group. There are aslo some excellent books about grief that can be helpful.
My sympathies are with you. It must be really horrible dealing with the loss of a parent. The best thing to do is just to remember that she's in a better place. She's not in any pain and she is happy. You are the one who is miserable. You might want to take grief counseling, or just find a good friend to talk it over with. Another thing is, get out of the house and do stuff you really like to do. You might take a trip somewhere you've always wanted to go. Your mom is gone from this world, but she will always be in your heart, and you will have good memories of when she was with you always. I wish you well and I hope this will help. Peace be with you.
I strongly recommend allowing yourself to accept support from family and friends. Talk to them - share what you feel. The most widely accepted concept of the stages of grief that a person goes through are
1. Shock/Denial
2. Anger
3. Bargaining (as in I'd do anything to have them back/making deals with god etc.)
4. Depression
5. Acceptance
If you find yourself really stuck or struggling, I strongly recommend seeing a counselor for grief & loss sessions. This can be very short term. Sometimes it really helps to talk with an objective person and/or a professional who understands more about grieving. If you're a religious person, speak with your minister or priest or rabbi.
I just noticed your screen name. If you're cutting to cope with your feelings, please tell a trusted adult and please seek counseling. There are much better ways. Emotional scars are bad enough - you don't need physical ones.
Hi,
Im so sorry about the death of your mom. :(
But listen, your mom is in a much much better place now.
She's in Heaven surrounded by Love and God's Angels and Warmth.
She's in a place where she will feel no more sadness or hurt or pain.
She's in a place where she will always be cared for, loved and looked after.
She's in a place that is perfect and peaceful and serene.
May Gods light always shine on her
and May His Angels always keep her warm and love her.
May she rest in peace.
Amen/Ameen
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