How do I get hubby to accept he is bipolar??
Question: Men are so stubbern, especialy mine.
He was diagnosed as being mildly bipolar years ago. He took some meds for it, but quit shortly after he started.
While he took it he was a whole new and wonderful man.
I want that man back!
He has bad moods swings. One minute happy, the next a mad bull. He also gets phases of that which can last for days at a time.
Then he drinks to top it all off.
Answers: Dear Carer, Having dealt with this illness myself, I would firstly encourage you.It is no small 'task' to assist and care for someone with this condition. Yet in spite of it all, you haven't given up, for he is indeed the man you love.
I don't know where you live, so I'm sending this from Australia,and an email address where you can receive a printout, or you can read,[if you have no printer]
email: mha@mentalhealth.asn.au or look up their website:
www.mentalhealth.asn.au
The printout is in the form of 14 pages, and for you it will not be 'difficult' reading, as it is structured for the carer and the sufferer as well.
Should he also suffer from Depression, which complicates the illness a little, you also can download the 'Depression' pages as well.
Being a man, and dealing with Dads in Distress,I am the first to say that with men it is a challenge, but do-able.
Encourage him to go with you or a trusted friend to see a Dr.and be reassesed for his sake, [not just yours], because you love him.
Perhaps find the reason he went off the meds, and begin there,
for it seemed to be working for him. But, he needs to find a Dr that will set up continued visits, say once each 3 weeks.
Also find in your area where you can best receive the assistance you need.Take care. sc
Handle him with care
The very worst part about that illness is that the patient themselves do not realize that their behavior changes from being on their meds.to being different when off of their meds. Another bad symptom is an inability to budget money. I would ask his Doctor what would be the best way to get him back on his meds. Good luck to you,
Tell him how much you love and care for him and want him to be healthy again.
Ask him to see a doctor and be ready to support his progress and not nag his downfalls.
I have been married to a wonderful man who is also Bi-polar. You can't get him to accept it. Just change how you react to his moods. Keep yourself and any children safe from him. Draw healthy boundaries with the help of a trained professional. Get Power of Attorney so when he gets out of control you can get him help.Also get Health Care Representative papers so you have the right to assist in his health care. Also get an Advanced Directive so that you don't have to feel guilty when he hurts himself you know what his wishes are. Seek out help for yourself. You will need it. We have been together 31 years. If your not careful it will suck the life out of you. Best Of Luck.
He was diagnosed as being mildly bipolar years ago. He took some meds for it, but quit shortly after he started.
While he took it he was a whole new and wonderful man.
I want that man back!
He has bad moods swings. One minute happy, the next a mad bull. He also gets phases of that which can last for days at a time.
Then he drinks to top it all off.
Answers: Dear Carer, Having dealt with this illness myself, I would firstly encourage you.It is no small 'task' to assist and care for someone with this condition. Yet in spite of it all, you haven't given up, for he is indeed the man you love.
I don't know where you live, so I'm sending this from Australia,and an email address where you can receive a printout, or you can read,[if you have no printer]
email: mha@mentalhealth.asn.au or look up their website:
www.mentalhealth.asn.au
The printout is in the form of 14 pages, and for you it will not be 'difficult' reading, as it is structured for the carer and the sufferer as well.
Should he also suffer from Depression, which complicates the illness a little, you also can download the 'Depression' pages as well.
Being a man, and dealing with Dads in Distress,I am the first to say that with men it is a challenge, but do-able.
Encourage him to go with you or a trusted friend to see a Dr.and be reassesed for his sake, [not just yours], because you love him.
Perhaps find the reason he went off the meds, and begin there,
for it seemed to be working for him. But, he needs to find a Dr that will set up continued visits, say once each 3 weeks.
Also find in your area where you can best receive the assistance you need.Take care. sc
Handle him with care
The very worst part about that illness is that the patient themselves do not realize that their behavior changes from being on their meds.to being different when off of their meds. Another bad symptom is an inability to budget money. I would ask his Doctor what would be the best way to get him back on his meds. Good luck to you,
Tell him how much you love and care for him and want him to be healthy again.
Ask him to see a doctor and be ready to support his progress and not nag his downfalls.
I have been married to a wonderful man who is also Bi-polar. You can't get him to accept it. Just change how you react to his moods. Keep yourself and any children safe from him. Draw healthy boundaries with the help of a trained professional. Get Power of Attorney so when he gets out of control you can get him help.Also get Health Care Representative papers so you have the right to assist in his health care. Also get an Advanced Directive so that you don't have to feel guilty when he hurts himself you know what his wishes are. Seek out help for yourself. You will need it. We have been together 31 years. If your not careful it will suck the life out of you. Best Of Luck.
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