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Do you think bisexuality is real? or just a "fad"??


Question: It's hard for me to believe so many people are so sexually hungry that they need to incorporate both genders. I have enough trouble with one sex!
Answers: Definitely real. I was attracted to my first boy at around 6 (yes I was an early bloomer) and my first girl around 8. No I didn't choose to be this way, but I do accept myself for who I am. I can go to the mall with the girls and check out guys or go with the guys and point cute girls. And yes I have been in love with people from both genders (not at the same time) As for the not being happy with either gender- when I am in a relationship with a guy I am with ONLY him and no one else, same goes if I am with a girl.

There are exceptions to this of course, like when my guy and I both like another girl and she agrees to a threesome, but at that point it is just sex. I will say however, that I have never had a threesome with a person I was in love with-there is no such thing as just sex when you are in love with one of the people involved (someone's feelings are BOUND to get hurt unless you're very, very careful). And when I am in love with someone, I want to be true to that person, and I want them to be true to me.

I was married for a few years, and while I admit to looking (at girls and guys), I never felt an urge to cheat on my husband-no different than when any married woman looks at other cute guys-doesn't mean she's not happy with her man, but then again, she's not dead either. And I never felt regret or wished I was with a woman either (well, until the divorce, but that's another thing entirely) :-)

Hope that helps.
Yes, there are people that are attracted to both sexes. You can be attracted to lots of people and love only one of them. Whether all the people you're attracted to are of the same sex or not doesn't really matter. It just means you have a bigger pool of people you might possible fall in love with.
i think its very much real


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